Men and women are the same

Not all women are like that.

In fact, not all men are like that either.

Women are shallow and only seem to want one thing. They frequently make mistakes by choosing the kind of men that are going to abuse them and push them around, and they secretly like the abuse because its addictive.

They go on internet forums for support during breakups.

And it’s true that men are crazy. One moment they are telling you they love you, the next they are ignoring all of your calls and texts.

Men are hypergamous.

They only want the most beautiful women, the ones who take care of them the most and are the most exciting. If given the choice between a hot woman and an ugly one, men will often choose the hotter one even if she suffers personality and is a total bitch.

Men tend to like “bad girls.” They are drawn to the women who will have a hard time committing and are great in bed.

I am convinced that most red pill men are, in fact, the exact same as the women they get into trouble with. They wonder why their relationship is sour because they have a demanding, controlling woman who won’t have sex with them.

What they don’t realize is they are the exact same way. They are just as controlling and “abusive.”

And they all like it that way because men and women like that are drawn to each other, they are both equally damaged.

Yes, it’s true that there are minor differences in the sexes. Men have a lot more tesosterone, women have visibly more body fat and less muscle, along with tits, they have periods and babies, and men seem more wired for casual sex.

But as far as everything else goes, it really does appear to be cultural…or, rather, conditioned.

It’s hard to make the claim that women love men with money and that men don’t love women with money when we live in a culture where men are all programmed to spend money on women and women are programmed to get away with whatever they want without consequence.

For all the talk of how women love badboys, let’s not forget that men love the bad girls too. They are addicted to the drama and the battles of control. Or else why would they all stay with lying, deceptive borderline women?

It’s the sexual energy, of course.

I love the song “She’s Always A Woman” by Billy Joel. Though it’s sung about women, I was skeptical last time I listened to it, and decided to flip the song around. See if you can find yourself in the new lyrics:

He can kill with a smile
He can wound with his eyes
He can ruin your faith with his casual lies
And he only reveals what he wants you to see
He hides like a child
But he’s always a man to me

He can lead you to love
He can take you or leave you
He can ask for the truth
But he’ll never believe you
And he’ll take what you give him as long as it’s free
Yeah, he steals like a thief
But he’s always a man to me

Oh, he takes care of himself
He can wait if he wants
He’s ahead of his time
Oh, and he never gives out
And he never gives in
He just changes his mind

He will promise you more
Than the Garden of Eden
Then he’ll carelessly cut you
And laugh while you’re bleedin’
But he’ll bring out the best
And the worst you can be
Blame it all on yourself
Cause he’s always a man to me

Oh, he takes care of himself
He can wait if he wants
He’s ahead of his time
Oh, and he never gives out
And he never gives in
He just changes his mind

He is frequently kind
And he’s suddenly cruel
He can do as he pleases
He’s nobody’s fool
But he can’t be convicted
He’s earned his degree
And the most he will do
Is throw shadows at you
But he’s always a man to me

If you want to fit the rhythm better and really get a good laugh, just replace the word “man” with “alpha,” and you’ll get the stereotypical alpha that all these idiots talk about online: charming, lying, independent, invulernable, abusive, non-committal.

It’s almost as if we as humans are all lying cheating deceptive bastards…

Especially the ones we fall hardest for.

Are women really attracted to money and resources?

No.

There is an ever-growing number of men in our culture who believe they are waking up to reality by “taking the red pill” and accepting that women require resource displays and “providers.”

But in all my observation of human behavior, the attitude of wanting things handed to us and skimping on personal responsibility is not an ability exclusive to women.

Today I was eating a salad and my girl opened her mouth wide for a bite. I didn’t give it to her.

But many men would say this is proof that a woman wants to “steal a man’s resources.” Sure. What they don’t take into account is that a man in her same situation would do the same.

Women in today’s modern culture are accustomed to this sort of childish entitled behavior precisely because men and other women encourage it.

In other words, it is not genetic or absolute that a woman must depend on a man or have him take care of her, whether finanically or otherwise.

It’s simply a fact that women of beauty seem to have all kinds of men willing to do things for her and many hot women take for granted the ease with which they glide through life because of that beauty.

But make no mistake, women selling their bodies for large sums of money are behaving “naturally.” At least not in the sense that nature intended for money to be exchanged for sex.

No, nature intended for humans to pair-bond and fall in love and THEN have mutually gratifying sex, or else we would be seeing a lot more rape and lot more money-grubbing.

But instead we see couples falling love, supporting each other, rich women dating loser assholes, and all kinds of other tropes in our culture.

So I would advise those men who think money is the answer to their women woes re-evaluate their shortcomings and beliefs about the world.

Money is great and solves all your problems, but it doesn’t ATTRACT women. At least not romantically or sexually.

It will most certainly “attract” the kind of vapid users that want to leech off your support.

Keep in mind, however, that all humans, whether men or women have the ability to freeload, to take advantage of, and be generally misleading and selfish for their personal gain.

There is nothing inherently selfish or “hypergamous” about women.

Men “trade up” all the time.

They use a girl for sex and then trade her in for a hotter one. Yet these same men who do this then complain about “female hypergamy” and how women are always looking to trade up for hotter, wealthier, stronger men.

If a woman is always willing to trade up for a wealthier man, then you’d best bet that woman is probably not a woman you’d want to associate yourself with anyway, unless of course you have a lot of money and nothing else to offer a woman.

Until next time,
James Mast